Toby

Nicknames: Tobster, The Gentle Flame, Staffmaster, Opossum King
Personality Traits: Strong, kind-hearted, dependable, patient, approachable
Likes: His dragon staff, late-night fire jams, the quiet curiosity of possums, lifting others’ spirits, good conversations around the fire pit, community bonds
Dislikes: Cruelty, neglect of animals, unnecessary conflict, broken props, people who don’t respect the circle
Hobbies: Training with his dragon staff until movements feel like second nature, caring for possums and teaching others to appreciate them, helping newcomers learn prop basics, joining festival fire circles, carrying heavy gear so others don’t have to
Aspirations: To be a protector and a friend wherever he goes, to inspire strength through kindness, and to be remembered as the fire dancer who spun power with heart

Toby is the definition of gentle strength. His presence is solid and reassuring—someone you can count on whether you need a smile, a helping hand, or a steady flame to follow in the circle. With his dragon staff in motion, he blends raw force with graceful precision, spinning fire in wide arcs that feel both powerful and protective.

But behind the fiery intensity is a heart that beats for connection. Toby has a soft spot for animals—especially possums, who often seem to mirror his misunderstood but tender spirit. Just like his favorite creatures, Toby is tougher than he looks, endlessly resilient, and surprisingly affectionate once you get close.

At festivals and gatherings, he’s the one who always greets you with warmth, who makes sure you feel included, who shows you that kindness and strength aren’t opposites—they’re partners. His fire staff may command attention, but it’s his kindness that people remember most.